找到usercpprofile.htm，把里面有关性别的改成如下代码就好了
<tr>
<td width="40%" align="right">性别:</td>
<td width="60%"><label>
<input id="male" type="radio" name="gender" value="1"
<%if {user.gender}==1%>
checked="checked"
<%/if%>
/>
<label for="male">男</label>
<input id="female" type="radio" name="gender" value="2"
<%if {user.gender}==2%>
checked="checked"
<%/if%>
/>
<label for="female">女</label>
<input id="secret" name="gender" type="radio" value="0"
<%if {user.gender}==0%>
checked="checked"
<%/if%>
/>
<label for="secret">保密</label></td>
</tr>